H was awfully friendly yesterday. Helped with the final maintenance of the car yesterday to get it ready for baby!
H called several times, and sent texts throught the day. I let him lead. I delayed replies.
H stopped over last night to pick up pants for today, stayed around for almost 45minutes just to talk.
MIL called last night to say how happy and excited she was that I was going to be there at the graduation and that H was too!
Drove with IL's to the graduation.
H was really happy. and said thank you for coming and how he was happy his son was at the graduation too.
found out that H scan and made his own ticket because he really wanted me there and when i asked him he said i just wanted to there and had to find a way.
Went to lunch with IL's and SIL and H. Very normal. H was very comfortable and happy and things were like they wouldve been a year ago, minus the affection/kisses. But the caring was there. He would look into my eyes when we talked, there where times i realized at a table of 5, felt like we were alone
H said wish your mom wouldve come to lunch with us. He was so happy they were genuinly happy for him. Amazing i never expected this from my family, yes they have great hearts but wow!
h would touch my stomach and talk to baby. introduced me by name and would say this is WIFE and they would reply, oh yes, heard so much about you. COngratulations on the baby. Or hi how are you... no one looked shocked to see me.
Mother and sister were at grad for BIL and we all sat togetehr. IL's and mom were so happy. H and BIL were taking pix together and felt like old times... one big happy family!
H asked to take pix with me... sigh
Sister invited H over to her house for small family celebration tonight for BIL, H accepted. We are also going together to birthing classes after that.
my whole family will be at sister's tonight and they love H. H is excited to see them. sigh.
Mom comes us to me during ceremony and says "i have amnesia... i dont remember anything the past few months except that I love H like a son." i said my heart feels the same way... not as a son of course.
Gotta Run! going to sister's meeting H there and then birthing classes!
Will keep you posted!
BTW. I was very comfortable and happy and had ZERO expectations. Learning to enjoy the moment and not think about tomorrow!
