MrBond - this is the same counselor that I found after the bomb dropped. I was seeing her for a while, she is pro-marriage and she is great. After H split up with OW for the 2nd time he came with me to see her couple of times, but it was useless, he wasn't interested in working on the marriage...now I know that he just moved back home and was "waiting" for OW to leave her H, she did and he was gone again.
So now he suggested that we see her again.
Cyrena - Thank you - that's a good idea to stall him, that may buy me time if I don't feel strong enough to keep it together for the session. I'll think about it
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
