Because we are the enemy now. Somehow, that is what we became ... history rewritten to suit that scenario too. Children left behind. And anyone who agrees with them is their ally, no matter how evil or manipulative. They become cowards, unable to face their stupidity, and the pain they have caused.
The best thing is to let go, and move on. If they can catch up one day, then fine, but some leave it too late. Some have lost themselves in a maze that has no exit.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim