Ahhh...I see. I had wondered about that last night when it went up.

I didn't link to it, but I did mention it.

Attention post-deleting mod...

I will post the first post of this thread on my thread in newcomer's, so it really WILL be a cross post.

In the meantime, any chance I can get the lists & the responses to those lists back--minus the link?

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.