She has been seeing a psychotherapist since January. I have met with her therapist on my own about 4-5 times and we went one time together. In all honesty, her therapist is a monster. She seems more supportive of my wife's desire to WA than stay and fight. I am not a therapist and I can see the changes in my W and I have felt for many months that she is suffering from depression. Before the kids she was 1000% more compassionate, caring and warm. Now she seems like a defensive snake in her hole. Her caring does come out towards me occassionally (for instance, she cooked me dinner last night), but not nearly like it did a year or so ago.
I can't believe that her therapist hasn't sent her to see an MD who could prescribe something. Perhaps her therapist is one of the types who think her crummy therapy is all the medication she needs.