Do make sure to reply. Avoiding the call and avoiding him will not help you deal with your situation or emotions. Avoiding his requests will only leave him anxious and frustrated...how will that lead to something good?
Be clear on where you stand, and where you'd like to go. As CG said, he'll do what he does about the divorce.
then do you advise I call back? Or text him a quick text. "Today is my sister's graduation. Call me tomorrow evening to reach me
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)
