Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

CTH,

I'm getting to the point where I care less and less what STBXW does with the kids when she has them.

It is unfortunate but for my own well being I limit my contact with XW as much as possible. I get the impression she doesn't like it. If it wasn't for the kids I would have zero contact with her.

I'm not concerned with my fun budget right now I need to get loose ends cleaned up in this mess and find a new place to live, get settled in and start living my life. This will all happen in time.

Sounds like you are in a reasonably good place,keep up the good work.