Ouch, I don't know, that is a tough spot. I don't have any answers, I'm just getting caught up on your thread. I just wanted you to know that I'm reading & thinking of you.

(((hugs)))

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.