Mandy, Yes, I'm the one on AD's now. The whole kicker of this is that he was the one on them and stopped taking them and flipped one day and left. I cannot even imagine what you have gone through. I can't believe he made you homeless, but you are right. They don't care who they hurt. Mine gave up his rights to our D13, well he had his step-mother go into the hearing or she told him she would go in and he lost his rights because of not seeing her on the days he should, drinking and driving with her in the car etc.
D13's IC had to send a report to the courts and all of this was in there, if you could have seen the evil look I got from his step-mother. And I didn't do a darn thing. He fell into contempt for not going to D13's counseling. He didn't fight for her or anything. He didn't see her for over 3 months, until she wrote to him and asked if he was ever going to want to see her or talk to her again.
I personally think the step-mother controlled this sitch out also with D13. H wasn't in the hearing so I'm sure that she told H that he couldn't contact D13 well she was 12 at the time. I know this woman and she can be so mean and evil. I've seen it before, with other people and then she did it to me.
So now, if I say she can't see H she can't (but I don't), I let her decide. His step-mother I think was so mad because she thought she was being a smart a$$ when she got him the best lawyer and took me for visitation rights when I never told him he couldn't see her to begin with, well she found out the hard way. She should have never gone through the court system when you know someone like H is a depressed person. Oh, that's right she said it was our M that caused his depression, hmmmmm D13 said he still is sad a lot, and cries sometimes and still isn't the daddy she knows and we have been separated for 18 months.
What I don't understand is we can't sway our H's decisions but someone else can....how does that work?
