Just received an e-mail from H (OW is still with him today). He is asking when would be a good time for me to go and see a counselor with him that he wants to make the appointment. If you recall he brought it up last week at our meeting (my first "dark meeting"), saying that we should see someone to talk about "how to talk to each other".
I don't know what the point is...all he wants to achieve is me being back to "friendly" with him. If I say no, he will blame me for "not trying to work on our relationship". If I go I'll have to talk to him about R stuff and what's the point when OW is in the picture. I know that it will be emotional and that I will probably end up in tears. The only reason to go is to show him that I'm not the "bad guy". If I can work myself up to being totally detached and not to show any emotions I guess I could go....but can I ?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
