I understand you are scared but you can't stop him from filing for divorce. You are under no obligation to assist him in the matter.

I would simply respond:

H: Yes, I sent the credit card. No, I have not looked into divorce nor do I have any plans to.

If he makes noise you don't have to listen to it. Simply tell him you will retain counsel if and when it is necessary.

Last edited by CityGirl; 05/25/10 06:20 PM.