HotRomeo, you`re getting great input here. I wish I had concrete advice for you...but I don`t. I hope your L is doing the job he should be doing...it seems like your W`s L has a strategy all figured out and your L is just reacting to things.
I`m sure you`ll figure out the finances, but why not move close to your work into a neighbourhood with great schools. Then you`ll save money on commuting, stop paying tuition and have more time for GAL and DD. Time to create a new lifestyle for yourself and do what`s right for you.
(((hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.