Did I miss something? You have mentioned it twice now and it seems to be separate from the legal issue.. and something that happened over the weekend. Can you clarify that.
no, the legal issue really bothered me. i guess because i've been honest throughout. and i just feel like i shouldn't have to negotiate or fight for stuff that belongs to me. i think my lawyer said that they expected it and so we will just negotiate. negotiate?! uh, that stuff belongs to me. there is no negotiating. and that just made me wonder whether i should be switching Ls. if my L is supposed to look out for me, then they shouldn't have even suggested 'negotiating'. it's not an option. just like infidelity. i didn't claim gifts i gave him. so this is pure stupidity. for a lawyer to even allow that to go on a financial statement.
and what in the world did i do to trigger this response? did i bother him? no. did i slash his tires? no. did i scratch his car? no. did i gouge him for more money? uh no. he owes me money and i haven't even asked for it yet.
when i see him do this, it just makes my job harder. time hasn't started healing any wounds. it has made it worse.
