Exactly, NM. I totally agree. This is part of the draft of my response:
I’m glad that it means a lot to you that she will be happy. Truth is, I don’t know how the events of the last few months will affect her in the future; I’ve never been in the situation before, and everyone is different. But it is my . . . determination, really, that I will be the leadership that she is okay. I think that she will end up following my lead. I hope that makes sense to you; just something I felt I had to say!
I’m not sure about a face-to-face meeting. I’d like you to see her and maybe feel her move before she’s born. I’ll think about it. Do we have other things to talk about?
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So I said my peace about the "everything's okay" part, ('cept I might want to say more) and then I asked a relevant question. If we don't have anything to talk about, then our meeting would be mega awkward. Does he think we're friends? 'Cause I can be friendly but we're NOT friends!!
So I will probably send this reply off today too. Lots of events happening!
Oh yeah, and he said in his first email that he was just about to write me. I wonder if that were really true.
