The only small item I might challenge is the use of the term "heart" when referring to infidelity pulling one back in.. It's not your "heart" or even your emotions.. it's an addiction and your imbalanced and unhealthy brain chemistry pulling you back in... Use of the term "heart" romanticizes things over much... One woudln't use "heart" when referring to a gambling habit, or a hoarding compulsion, or alcoholism.
I love the position about the battle ongoing inside, and I think we CAN see that with OIN's wife here... she needs TIME to emotionally process all of this and get her brain back into a healthy balance...
Demanding things from her isnt' going to solve anything. Serious commitment at THIS TIME is NOT REALISTIC
Courstesy in word is realistic, but not serious commitment... no way is she ready for that right now...
