Yes, OIN and his wife should talk... But NOT YET.. IT's too soon...
And demanding an apology is NOT how to start that conversation...
Keep doin what you're doin OIN... avoid bad turns like the plague, that's more important than the good days is avoiding the bad.. you are checking yourself, that's good.. keep that up...
Give your wife a few weeks to process this work stuff... her Sup talk to her yet?
I would expect another blow up... don't get involved... Just be somewhere else if you can.