Kissak, While I agree that there is a time and place for lower expectations you also have to be very careful that you do not deny yourself your love language. This is once again where resentment can creep in. It may be time to seek help from a Marriage Counselor as the two of you work towards living happily and successfully together.
Have you checked into getting your wedding ring re-sized? That shouldn't be too expensive and something you can take care of yourself. If that isn't acceptable have you suggested to him that you would like a new wedding ring? Sometimes we, as women, expect grand gestures that will never cross the man's mind because we are wired differently.
You are wondering how Saturday will go: Have you had a conversation with him about the day? Make plans together to make it special.
*hugs* ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
