I wouldn't be looking for an apology, or more broadly even remorse or contrition. As the best infidelity research points out, more than half the time, this never comes.
I'd be looking instead for an overall commitment to the reconciliation process, for TRUE no-contact, and for respectful and courteous behavior from her (the "no worse than you would treat a stranger" standard mentioned above).
Puppy
Good stuff here... This nonsense of demanding apologies and such just isn't realistic, not to mention contrary to DB strategy guidelines...
I usually stick to MWD unless there's an affair happening... MWD is spot on unless there's infidelity at work, then I think a hardball approach is necessary...
