sometimes i feel like i hear it 200 times a day. i've never heard anyone dote on their grown child to the point where it's like sucking up. it's not genuine.
Didn't your husband say one of his issues is that you don't understand the bond between him and his parents? That's the way he feels. Look at how you feel about their bond. I bet it was noticeable.
You say over and over you feel foolish, don't want to look foolish and are worried that you will look like a gold-digger. Why are you worried about what other people think of you? This causes you from expressing what you really want and need. It's a co-dependent trait.
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my beliefs and morals doesn't agree with that. it's not my part of my belief system that i move on to someone else.
So what are you doing to save your marriage?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
