My Husband Just Left Me

[Ready2Change]

I think I am going to take newmama's advice and just try to focus on something else for today. It is going to be hard but I don't think I'm thinking clearly enough to be able to make any of these decisions and I don't want to regret anything later that I say or do.

Good advise....Do something for you...Do something you enjoy....Do something that makes YOU happy.....Massage, peticure, manicure, running, walking, a movie, go have coffee with a good friend....

I haven't contacted him AT ALL in anyway and when he came over to talk on Sunday I let him lead the discussion, let him know where I stood and said I thought he would resolve it but I would go on without him. Inside, I just wanted to break down and run to him and have him hold me but I didn't do it. For all he knows, I'm sipping on a margarita right now.

PERFECT!

Baby steps, right?

Do what works. WATCH HIM CLOSE FOR THE BABY STEPS. Set your goals and start moving toward them WITHOUT HIM.....Let him catch up on his timeline....

HUGS