Hi CityGirl,

It is the same here for going after attorney fees, but I have to pay the attorney first.

I will go to this law firm on Thursday for $20 to see if they can help me some. I hope to at least file the paperwork and maybe get some motions put in place. I will go to court by myself as last alternative. I know I am a "fool" if I do. I have to do what I can.

I am so emotional today, and I try hard not to be, but I cannot help it. I do not know how I let myself get in this situation. I wish I could change things. I can only do the best for me and the kids now and in the future. They do need me, and I do not want to be a dad that is not apart of their life.

I so much appreciate everybody here and the responses I have received. It is so nice to have people to talk to.

I do want to be positive and be happy for me and my kids. They deserve so much, and I need to do all I can for them. I love them!!!

Thank all of you so much!

Last edited by LSG; 05/25/10 03:52 PM.

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