If you see her as in a crappy mood, are you sure it isn't converting friendly into just distant?
You must have been there before. This is exactly what I think about.
I try to be "lovingly distant", but am sure it is more distant than anything. To me, it is impossible to be loving toward her. I have to settle on friendly for now. Not overly friendly but not pissy, either.
What does she want? I am finally done with her B.S. She knows it. Should I make more of an effort to be more loving and not so distant? Doesn't seem like the time is right, but I've been wrong, lots of times, before.
