Dude,

You have a NO CONTACT COURT ORDER.

If you contact her in anyway, you are violating the court order.
That puts you in CONTEMPT OF COURT.
Courts/judges do not take that lightly. consequences can include going to jail and it is likely to jepordize your chances of getting custody of your daugther.

Violating that court order by contacting her in anyway is like cutting your own throat with a rusty knife.

When the order is lifted, you can contact her if you feel you must, but until then, it's beyond foolish to do so.

DID IT EVER OCCUR TO YOU THAT SHE IS BAITING YOU TO TRY TO GET YOU TO VIOLATE THE COURT ORDER?

NOT IN YOUR BEST INTEREST TO TAKE THE BAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!