Ok, ok that makes sense. Yes, I have a VERY difficult time with control.
But I still feel like he needs help. Aside from the seperation, etc. He is being self destructive and it's painful for me to see that.
When he originally started seeing his therapist - the therapist met with me for an hour, then my WH, then both of us. So, he knows who I am and he said in the beginning I could contact him with questions, etc. I have not seen him since then - my WH was just seeing him individually.
