OK - got it! I'm still not sure I'm ready to do it. I need to give myself a few days to think about it.
What about my post about contacting his parents or therapist? What is everyone's thoughts about that.
I could even ask him mom to meet for lunch. He is their only child - he had 3 brothers that died and I almost feel like she has a right to know or something about what he is doing with his life.
