The hardest thing for me is to stop looking at my W as a confused and lost girl that maybe one day will find her way back home.

And yes, sometimes, I think of her on those terms as liar and adulterer but soon after, I think that I can't judge her based just on what she's done in the past 3 months. I can't forget about those 12 years when she was the most lovely and considered person I've known.

Trying to get the balance right is tricky.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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