I say your D can make a gift for whomever she wants, that's her decision. I know it is sad for FFG but so be it. If any of your kids do want your help in getting their dad a gift, I would help them get a gift. But if they do not, I wouldn't force them...in my case I will help my kids bc they are little (4 & 7) and do want to get him a gift...

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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