My Husband Just Left Me

[DiamondGirl]

He is still going to have access to the money. I cannot move the money because almost all our bills are paid with automatic payments.

Then change the account info where the automatic payments are drawn from... Contact each bill company and they will change it.. sometimes over the phone...Sometimes by fax... Make a list and talk to them one by one...

I know first hand how difficult a step this is to take (read my sitch's more recent posts for the gory details). In my case, I felt disloyal and that I was stepping over the line of no return with H. However, I had no choice when H purposely bounced the mortgage payment because he got "angry". Like a child would.
Children can't pay adult bills.

If you don't take the step to look out for your finances... who will?