Thanks, TG....I have the 5LL book but haven't gotten to it yet (am now reading "Passionate Marriage", which has been pretty illuminating).
Agree I need to stay cool and not rush things (though it's hard not to) and that we need to still address the issues that got us here in the first place (did tell her that - she would definitely just like to "forget the past" at this point, which she said just last night).
Folks, any advice here or specific stiches to read at this point???
