I just talked to the bank again and now they are saying that he has to be present to be taken off the account which isn't going to happen.
He is still going to have access to the money. I cannot move the money because almost all our bills are paid with automatic payments.
I can still move my personal money/paycheck to another account though although part of my money will transfer automatically into the joint billing for bills and he will still be able to access that.
I guess I could still send him the email saying I will take back paying the bills through that account. He may be less likely to take money from there when he knows that I am checking the account more frequently.
