Well it all depends on what she does on Friday.I know she is going to do something.We were supposed to go on vacation next week with all of our friends.I am not going but she still wants to go and take the kids with her.OM is going to be there.That is why I am not going.My oldest does not want to go. The youngest told me that he does not want to go when all this happened but now they are talking him into it.All of his friends are going.The only choice I have is to file for divorce before they go and take out a restraining order for her not to go with this man.I think that would make my son hate me.I don't think it would be a good thing for him to go because all they do is drink. I don't think he will have much supervision.I don't know what to do.We have been saving for 6 months and it is all in her credit union account. I have been paying the bills for the last 6 months out of my check and she has been putting her money in the bank.So I don't even have the money to retain a lawyer.I will try to get it but I do not know if I can.