Thanks. I am seeing a lawyer today. I don't know what is going to happen. Her mom keeps asking me if there is anything going on.She wants out as fast as she can.I don't know how long it takes to file or have anything done.I will find out today.I am affraid that if I piss her off she will make this a nasty divorce and I don't know if thats what I want.She first told me that she wants a dissolution but know threatens a divorce. What is the difference.I feel like everyone is against me and am affraid of the bull she is telling everyone.