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but coach, i'm not guessing or inferring.
those are facts.
i've witnessed the millions of times his mother has said that he was right.


So if he is 40 and you witnessed this millions (I'll use 2 million) of times. If you were around since his birth that means you experienced this 137 times a day. smirk cool crazy grin

You are catastrophising things here - you are thinking way too negative, permanent and global. Plus you are spending way too much time thinking about what he is thinking = wasted energy.

What are your solutions? Right now you aren't acting like you want to stay married. Goals that follow your beliefs and values are key to staying focused on what you should be doing. You can handle it.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.