I agree 100%.
My changes have been huge, and I am thankful this has happened.

The challenge is I have interaction with my ex way too much.
On Friday I was out to dinner with her and our kids, then last night she came by to pick up my daughter. She came in my house and was hanging out with my kids and then gave me a hug when she left.
She just seems to want to smooth things over so it's all cool between us.
I just can't seem to get past everything yet. My ex got up walked out the door without trying to even talk to me, has a new life now and just expects me to say "oh well".
I made a commitment to her for life, we have a family. I will never take the "oh well attitude ever !!

So yes, I am very grateful this has happen but not happy that I don't get to have a traditional family life.
I get to experience my children every few days and that is it.
I don't let resentment get in the way of my life with my children at all. It's just that I miss being a family.


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09