That is fantastic my friend! That is a good sign I think. Don't rush things. Make sure you read the archives in piecing so you know what to expect.
Also have you read the 5 Love Languages? I am reading it right now and it really does shed some light on R.
I think you still need to remain cool at this point. I mean let her come to things at her own pace.
Spend the time reflecting on you.
I am happy you are seeing positive signs, however, I am a little concerned that the issues that brought you here have not been addressed and if so this will not have longevity.
You are moving into territory that I have not been through (piecing) so I am hopeful some more experiencde folk can chime in here....
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am