I don't know what I want to do. I really think it is over.I am amazed how all our circle of friends are handling this.I am the bad guy.She has turned everyone against us.No one has called except 1 person to see how I am doing.I don't know what she is telling everyone about our marriage.She has told me that I should of been a man and treated her better.We haven't been intimate for quit some time. I have tried and tried but she always says some snide remark and it kills the moment.Or she just doesn't want me to even touch her.She told me that she wanted a dissolution first and now she is threatening a divorce,What is the difference.She says she is filing it Friday,but I think that is the first time she is talking to a lawyer.Can she do this? She told me I was trying to be a super dad now.I told her that it is important to keep a eye on the kids now and since she turned all of our friends against me I have nothing else to do so I am trying to help the kids thru this.I have been off work for about a week and she has come home 3 out of the 7 nights after midnight.She just leaves and goes over our friends house and sits there and drinks and bullshits all night.The OM is always there and she has left there and went to his place a couple of nights.She came home at 1:30am and I thru her out that night and a couple of nights later she came in at 3:00 in the morning.WHAT DO I DO?Please any one with information please help me.Thank you
