Thank you all for the support. No, I wasn't suggesting confronting the girlfriend. My daughters have done that enought and it's still always my fault. I totally took myself off of Facebook so OW could quit taunting me. As for the reading, I'll get to it after work today. All I meant was, now SHE gets to see some of what I have lived with for the past 5 years, the surgeries, the drinking, the depressions, etc. I have only contacted him through my lawyer for the past two weeks, he the same, but now he is contesting charges I made on our mutual account at a book store before he left. Believe it or not, the book, Surviving An Affair
