Thank you everyone for your comments. I am really having a difficult time, not about my H or relationship, but really about all of the compounding issues all happening at the same time. And I was told yesterday by my boss that sometime soon, I will be removed from my position. It is "needed" he indicated to me. So nothing is good for me at this point.

There has been a lot of pain and hurt experienced by everyone on these boards. I thank all of you for sharing you stories with me.


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."