Also, can I get some clarification on the banking stuff?
I understand I should move my current personal things. That makes sense.
What about the accounts he has access to (especially the billing because I know he was taking money from here - I believe he will put it back but that's not the point). Should I call the bank and remove him name from those account.
I would leave his name on the account where his paycheck went to so he could still access that but I would not use that money as I will have moved my money to an accoun he cannot access.
Then for our billing account - I would take away his access so he can't borrow money from that account. I would then need to take over paying the bills again because we use that account to pay the bills. I now wondering if he said he would continue that duty because that would still allow him access.
I'm guess I just an in denial about how he can be so manipualtive and hurtful.
Thoughs about the above? Does everyone agree about closing access to all the accounts besides the one where his paycheck goes?
Although now that I'm thinking about it. Part of the money in the joint billing account is his. It is used to pay bills but it is still his money so part of me things that if he wants to borrow from it that is his choice. I would be cutting off access to funds to pay bills because I dont want him to borrow from the account.
GAAAHHHH!
New email?? "Good morning WAH, I have decided to deposit my paycheck into a separate account. I will have $xxxx transfer every two weeks into the joint account to cover joint bills. I will take over paying the bills using the joint billing account. Please continue to deposit $250 per week into the account so I can continue to pay our debt. Thanks for understanding. anned
