I agree with CityGirl! Perhaps you have enabled your H to be sensitive? One should not have to tip toe around another person. If you can't be yourself, without worrying about offending one's spouse all the time, then perhaps it's a good thing he has left. Not that you should be mean, but honesty in a marriage would be a good thing if it is kind as well. One of the DB tips is that you only contact WAS's about kids or finances. So, you got finances covered.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim