Shocked one I know, I did learn something new. Her friend told me that the guy with her was her bosses son and not a bf. She said WAW is scared and stressed.

The changes made are definitely for me - with or without her.
Weight
Finances
Anger
Laziness
etc...

She advised I should write a letter and not talk about the M or getting back together, and that I just want to be CIVIL and friendly for our DDs sake.

I think I may write the letter and just agree with my responsibility in this mess, and the changes i have made and leave it at that.

I will go dark again, and not contact her until court. Learning there is no OM made me feel a lot better.

Last edited by knightinneed; 05/25/10 05:29 AM.
M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on