Knight, I have been off these boards for the last little while, so I don't know if I have missed much in your past posts. That being said, I have followed most of your sitch, and the recurring theme seems to be that you tend to make excuses for your WAW's bad behaviors. She may like the changes you are making, but you need to make these changes for you, not her. Some of the advice you get on these boards may feel like 2X4's to the head, but sometimes that is what the LBS's need to get once in a while.
Shock


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