father walked out on her and her mother when she was a child, so her mom had to work multiple jobs to get by , meaning she was never home to spend time with her. She fought tooth and nail against putting our daughter in a VERY highly regarded day care center, so she could go back to work, even though it was plain as day we were struggling badly to keep up with things on only my income. Then again, she went back to work within a month of giving birth to our son last fall so ........................????
She also has an aunt/uncle she was fairly close with as a teen, even lived with them for awhile. Her aunt has NEVER had to work a day in her life unless she was bored. Got a new car every two years regardless of need, has a nice house in an expensive area. The WAW's Uncle has been a Union Electrician for over 30 years , so he makes VERY good money. He actually just wound up buying a Multi Million Dollar Firm of his own. Im really just guessing , since she certainly didnt seem to mind back in the late 90's eary 2000's when we had a fairly successful business of our own and the security and freedom that lots of excess cash afforded us. Then again , she just mentioned to me a couple weeks ago about being irritated by my so called " obsession " with money. As if not wanting tojuggle bills , and not having to park a vehicle because you cant afford the repairs , etc etc was a bad thing somehow.
The EX had a relative pass away last year or so and left him an actually half way decent double wide mobile home free and clear except for yearly property taxes. I have NO CLUE what he does for work. So maybe she's thinking it wont be a big deal if she doesnt work and is planning to be home with the kids more, especially our baby son. To bad for her Im filing for custody first thing in the morning, including a temporary order barring any unsupervised visitation anywhere he is. His violent history and arrest record is WELL documented. He was just arrested this time last year at his mothers house for domestic violence against his sister ! One of the twins called me , crying hysterically about it and the police arrived and locked him up in front of them.
