Everyone seems to think the marriage is doomed. I think she has WAW fog. I just think if she could see the changes it could make it better. I know it was lowdown, but just as you know It made me think about her 10x as much. Now I know why the jealousy factor is such a excellent technique.

I never expected it, but City girl I want to save this M. I want to give myself the best chance possible to reunite my family. Maybe I wont contact her. We will eventually get this No Contact order dropped, so what would you recommend I do in this situation?

I am having a hard time detaching, I dont feel Im ready to date, and I am focusing on my 180s and kids.

I hate not knowing!


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on