Do not let anyone talk you into "rebirthing" or anything. I suppose your work friends will keep you in line. LOL.
Black best friend would disown me forever if I even brought it up. White best friend has been trying to get me to consult a psychic for months and would likely encourage a rebirthing.
To be safe, I won't mention it to either one of them. I can't face the consequences of describing anything like this to them.