Kat, he kept saying to me, "I know God is leading me to tell you this, and it will be a good thing".

Then his W was really surprised, but...I think she was happy about it.

In a million years I can't IMAGINE my H making a confession like that.

I think it was a good start for the financial guy--really, he doesn't know me--we have never "met" face-to-face. And I didn't clobber him or anything--I was just asking him a lot of questions about it. I really think he may have the courage to open up more about it, which I think would help him battle his demons.

I confess to everyone that for the first 9 years we were married I was a HORRIBLE W. Just awful. Part of the reason I can put up with this--he put up with ME for all those years.lol.

I was in SUCH a good mood when H and S got home (I was like BRING IT lol.) that it was a little bit of a let down that H didn't want to light into me anymore. I joked around with S and H asks us if we want to go to the movies. We were like "OK!"

Got home and had dinner and went out for a 1 1/2 hour walk with my dogs and visited friends in the neighborhood.

Now that I'm getting out so much more, there is a TON of stuff going on I have never noticed. A new barn across the street is giving lessons in jumping (horse). I SO want to DO that!!
My H will of course say no. I shouldn't care and do it anyway. Or should I. I AM supposed to GAL, right?

Goodness--think anyone GAL by learning to jump at age 47??lol. Bet THAT takes your mind off of things!