Yes, I'm doing all right. Not to say I don't have those days when I get really sad & cry but they are not everyday like they just to be.
I think it was hard for my h to face me. I discovered ow about 2 weeks after he told me he wanted a d, but I didn't tell him I knew it. I gave him every opportunity to tell me, but he just kept saying there was no one else & he was tired of me accusing, I kept my mouth shut! He went on a so called business trip, I got into his computer (laptop) & that is when he discovered that I knew, actally while he was out of town. He couldn't face me the night he flew back, he stayed at a Motel 8 just down the road from me. He never talked about it unless I brought it up, but he never would admit to it, I think his lawyer told him not to.
I'm glad you are doing all right. It's sounds like your D17 is a smart girl!