I have an electric hedge trimmer & that is what I cut my cable TV wires with this past weekend. ugh! Anyway, I have hedges that my ex hated trimming & now I know why, I hate them too!!! They are 90ft long, 3ft wide & 7ft tall. NOT FUN! Especially when it is so hot. I trimmed them all last summer. If I could afford it I would cut them all down & put up a privacy fence. Maybe one of these days. It is hard keeping up a house. I didn't do anything to mine until my d was final & I knew I was getting the house.
The most I've done is some things that my ex didn't finish, I have done things that he would not think I would or could do. I wish he could see.
I think once I knew this house was all mine then I got busy. Maybe you can get that momentum back once things move forward some more. I just hung in limbo for a while & thought about things I wanted to do. I actually made a list & that helped!
Hang in there, you can do this! You have been so strong, it's ok not to be strong all the time.
