That's why you need to put your vitals in your signature line so at least we can keep a running score of how many kids you have, how long you've been M, etc.
I'm also getting a little confused. Did they have kids together?
When her H came back to live around you, did you interact with him then?
If all you had to go on was your GF's accusation of her abuse, I'm not sure if they were that severe (just guessing). Even with her family members, did they see the abuse or did she just tell them about it?
Right now what do you think the OM is offering her that she feels you can't provide?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
