I made a list of everything. I photographed every room to show the items there. I divided the house belongings in half, picking things I thought I'd need for me and the kids, while still trying to be fair.
**** ALL of the kids items go WITH THE KIDS, they are NOT part of the split assets.****
I gave the list to H and let him go through it. I EMAILED it so it was documented, as well as his responses.
So long as I still had roughly half, I didn't care what he wanted or didn't want to change.
He took the kitchen table, for example, and then sold it to the movers for $10. I think just to spite me. I don't care. It's over. Not worth fighting over.
Pick half, make sure the kids keep their stuff, and walk away from the rest.
